Jun 05

I was looking online for a family member’s web page just to see some pics of their kids because it’s been such a long time since I’ve had a chance to see them when it occurred to me that I haven’t posted here in forever!  We’ve been super busy lately as per usual with the big June rush on at the moment.  All of the kids activities are wrapping up which means extra events every chance you could possibly imagine:)

Kris has his ACR today for cadets which stands for Annual Ceremonial Review.  It’s a very rehearsed parade where the cadets are judged on their marching and drill techniques as well as their uniforms.  Kind of like graduation for cadets:)  I know he’s really excited about it although his “excitement” is getting harder and harder to decode in the big scheme of things.  16 year old, nearly 17 year old boys are very hard to figure out!!  His grade 11 year is winding down with final exams coming up quite quickly and only one more cadet field training exercise left.  Then, of course, he’s off to cadet training for the summer.  We’ll definitely miss him more than he knows.  He’s never been away from home that long before.

Emma’s preschool graduation is fast approaching.  She had pics done in cap and gown even which is cuter than I could ever imagine!  They have a great photographer there — one of the mommies — who manages to catch the kids smiling and clean once in a while:)  They’re working on grad songs, getting ready for preschool and a big Father’s Day event this month as it nears time to say goodbye to some very near and dear friends.  Hoping to stay in contact with some of the fantastic moms and kids that we’ve met there over the last two years…I’ve become quite attached to some of these mommies and will probably be even more devastated than Emma:(  However, onward ho right??  Kindergarten starts in the fall as well as two new dance classes and Sparks (Canadian Girl Guides for ages 5-6).  Right now she’s also winding up the soccer season on the odd night it doesn’t rain, finishing her second year of gymnastics learning cartwheels, walkovers and backward rolls at the Little Gym and rehearsing like crazy for her big year end dance recital!!!  I guess busy doesn’t really give this month justice — lmao.

Cassy is changing nearly every second becoming such a big girl.  They grow up in the blink of an eye really and it’s all been such a blur!  The first few months were terribly difficult not knowing if she was going to make it and worrying about her health every second.  Things are so much different now, thank goodness.  After months of pumping and working hard at teaching her how to nurse when she was awake, she finally got it.  That was a real turning point for her.  Now she’s chubby.  Gloriously chubby!!  She’s got rolls and dimples on her rolls and dimples quite literally.  Some of the doctors who only saw her when she was quite small no longer even recognize her!!  Not that we see the doctors much anymore.  She went from having appointments 5 days a week to not seeing her neurologist for 3 months!  She’s progressing by leaps and bounds although still not rolling over.  7 months already means we’re closing in on the first birthday.  We’ll have to make this one special for our beautiful rainbow baby:)  She even started saying “mama” the night before last…

Apr 01

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So, Cassy is now off her anti-sezure meds and seems to be doing well with it. She is sleeping A LOT less now though and wakes a few times in the night now. Oh well, at least she is healthy! She is also 100 % breast feeding and is packing on the pounds. She had an EEG when she was coming off and we have not seen the results, but it looks like she is doing well.

Emma is loving dance, gymnastics and preschool and looking forward to kindergarden next year. She is an amazing dancer!

Kris is doing well in army cadets and loving it. They were out last weekend and will be out camping in a week. He is doing really well in his core coarses this term, although the options still need some work. Currently he is leaning towards joining the Army when he graduates, so we are trying to help him figure out coarses and what would be a good aim for University.

Gotta go, Emma wants out of the bath!

Nov 30

Okay, better late than never…

Our newest addition to the family; baby Cassandra Serenity Rain Bentley was born on Oct 29, 2010 at 18:58. She was born at 36 weeks and 3 days and was 7lbs 6oz. Paula and Cass stayed in the hospital for 3 days.

After being home for about a week, we took her in to the excelent Alberta Children’s Hospital because she was just not waking up as much as a baby should and we were concerned that she was not gaining weight properly. We were also concerned about her jaundice…

After about 7 hours in Emergency, the doctor was about to send us home without an answer, but decided to just run a blood gas test first. That came back with somewhat higher levels of CO, so we were also tested and the Calgary Fire Department went and checked out our house. Everything was okay, but in the meantime, the doctors changed shif and the new one was not comfortable sending us home without an answer…

In the end, more doctors eventually got involved and Cass was eventually checked into the hospital. She was there for 8 days. She got an EKG, EEG, CT scan and a quick emergency MRI. There were all kinds of tests! In here first EEG, they saw sezure activity and put her on the anti-sezure drug Kepra.

In the end she was feeding in 1/2 hour rather than the previous 90+ minutes and we thought that she was slowly improving… They never really found the caus of all the sleepiness and were pretty much hoping that she would just snap out of it closer to her due date… So far, she has sort of roller coastered and sometimes she seems to be doing well, and sometimes nothing will wake her up! It can get rather frusterating!

Currently, she seems to be doing okay and we are just trying to keep her out of the hospital.

We have community health nurses calling regularly to check up on us.

Aug 01

Happy Birthday Paula!  We love you!

Unfortunately Kris is away at camp today and I know that Paula is just counting the days until he is back…

Aug 01

Well, Kris headed off with several other cadets from his Army Cadet Corps for for 3 weeks at Army Cadet Camp in Vernon today.  He is taking a bus to Penhold, then they load them all into a plane up to Cold Lake, drop the Air Cadets off there and fly to Vernon.  It should be quite the day for him.  Well, at least he has several other cadets that he knows with him…  We wish him good luck and hope that he has fun and learns a lot!  It should certainly be a growing experience (for Kris and us).

Emma of course started crying as soon as he got on the bus.  We will all really miss him and are going to be counting the days until he gets back.

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Jul 19

Wow!  Kris is 16 already.  How did that happen?  Well, happy birthday Kris!

Jun 07

So, we got a call from Kris’ teacher on Sunday night…  (If you ever want to freak parents out, call them on Sunday night saying that you are their kid’s teacher.)

Kris will have one or two pieces of art in his high school’s art showing this thursday!  Paula and I can not wait to see them!  If anyone is interested, there is an open viewing on Thursday night at his school.  Contact Mark for more details. 

Kris had been taking art this semester as an option and has done really well.  Both art teachers (and his parents) have been quite impressed by his art.

May 13

Kris is loving being in the Airdrie Army Cadets.  I must admit that Paula and I are conflicted…

Yesterday the Captain did promotions and I know that Kris was hoping to get promoted.  First she handed out new star levels (badges for your level of knowledge in various subjects) and Kris got upped to Red star, which I was hoping that he would be able to do by the end of the year.  Then she announced the promotions from Cadet (what Kris was) to Lance Corporal (what Kris was hoping for), but didn’t call Kris…  I was a little baffled, but since he has only been there a short time, I figured “oh well, maybe next time.”  I know Kris had been hoping, so he was a little let down.

I was pretty baffled since Captain Mark had been telling parents if their kids were getting promoted and had told me that Kris would be on that list.  As I said, I figured “oh well, at least he got red star.”

Then, when she called up the cadets for promotion to the rank of Corporal, Kris was called up!  To my knowledge, they rarely if ever skip ranks, so we were surprised.  Kris had a huge perma-grin that is likely still there.  On the way home he was saying “I am a corporal, I can’t believe I am a corporal.”

One of the things with Army Cadets is that they take kids 12-18, but since Kris started at almost 15, he was put into the bottom level with mostly younger kids.  Now that he is a red star and a corporal, he will be hanging out with kids more his own age.

Of course, thetwo  main reasons that he has managed to get to red star corporal so fast is that:

he has a great Captain who realizes that kids will fit in better with kids their own age and has been willing to promote him a little faster.

Kris worked his butt off to catch up and prove that he deserved the promotions.  Captain Mark was quite impressed when Kris was the only one to score 100% on his Green star test and he has consistantly volunteered when needed and really put his heart into it.

So, congrats Kris.  We are all happy that you have found something that you enjoy and impressed with how hard you are working at it!

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May 07

Last night we were sitting around the dinner table and for some reason I was trying to explain what a brain is.

Dad: “Your brain is inside your head.”

Mom: “Your skull is like a helmet for your brain.”

Emma just looks suspicious…

Dad: “Your brain is what tells you what to do.”

Emma: ” No it isn’t.  You and Mommy tell me what to do.”

How can you argue with that??

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May 05

Emma scored her first goal on Monday’s game!!  It was on our team but it still counts, right? lol  Right after she scored on her own team, she scored on the other team.  She was beyond super stoked!!  She definitely is loving soccer.  Hopefully the weather improves so that they’ll be able to play games again soon.  Tonight’s game is definitely going to be snowed out.  Oh well, two more games next week!  At least her gymnastics and ballet are indoor activities that aren’t effected by the weather.

Kris has cadets tonight with the monthly parents meeting.  The cadets are having an exam tonight on the hunter ed course they’ve taken.  It shouldn’t really be a big deal because it’s open book.  Plus, with cadets Kris doesn’t really get homework.  That’s where his problem really lies.  He doesn’t do any assignments but gets ridiculously high test marks at school.  Too bad the exams don’t count for most of the class:(  I’m sure he’ll pull it together just before the end of the year so that he manages to get into the correct classes next year.  He’s just got to make us sweat it out a big in the meantime.  Nothing like stress, right?  Oh, kids.

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